Whenever you think of vibrators, we’ll hazard a guess that you picture a clit vibrator.
While the sex toy market has, admittedly, for the most part been tailored towards women, there are plenty of exciting sex toys for men and people with penises out there, too.
The most common of them all is the male masturbator. No prizes for having heard of Fleshlights – perhaps the most popular in the category – but there are also tons that rotate, thrust, vibrate, and app-controlled.
Keep reading for our round-up of the best, as well as everything you need to know about male masturbators.
Best male masturbators at a glance:
What is a male masturbator?
If you’re wondering what the fuck we’re on about – you have two hands, after all – allow us to explain.
“A male masturbator is a sex toy designed to stimulate the penis during solo or partnered play,” according to April Maria, sex and relationships coach and Resident expert at Sex tech brand Hot Octopuss.
Just like clit vibrators, penis masturbators don’t come in one form. In fact, there are a ton of different types.
“While many people think of them as simple sleeves, there is actually a wide variety available to suit different preferences,” Maria explains.
“Some have an inner textured sleeve, some have motorised thrusting features, and others can be used flaccid or erect and even hands-free. Some masturbators even offer oscillations or suction-like sensations, and some even mimic specific anatomical forms.”
Best male masturbators to shop now
Now that we’ve got that sorted, HuffPost has rounded up the very best male masturbators, strokers, and blowjob machines on the market. Ready, set, go!
Best app-controlled masturbator
If you want to introduce something fun and interactive to your solo time, this masturbator from Lovense has all the tricks you could ever need.
It’s motion-controlled, so if you move it faster it will vibrate more intensely. Not to mention it can be linked to the Lovense app, which has unlimited and completely customisable vibration modes, which you can programme yourself or ask your long-distance lover if they’re game.
The app also unlocks tons of games and it can be synced to music or erotic content, so there are more ways for you to get off than you ever could have imagined.
+ It’s open, so it can fit any girth
+ The app is really the best of its kind for long-distance play
+ Super easy to clean as it doesn’t come with an internal sleeve
+ Can be synced to other Lovense toys so you can come together
– Battery life isn’t quite as long as other Lovense products, but still nearly two hours
Features: Unlimited vibration modes, app-controlled, motion sensor
Material: Silicone
Power: Rechargeable
Battery length: 110 minutes
Dimensions: 4.17 x 2.13 x 1.3 inches
Waterproof: Yes.
Best for realistic blowjob sensations
Tell us you don’t want realistic blowjob sensations without having to find a partner to give you one. We dare you.
Bellesa has the answer to, well, pretty much everything, which is why we’re not at all surprised it has launched a machine that gets as close to the best head of your life as you could have ever dreamed of.
It uses thrusting and rotating technology, so not an inch will go unnoticed, and you can even use it hands-free for a fully relaxing experience.
+ Comes with a travel lock
+ Rotates around the head, which feels crazy good
+ Quite quiet, as masturbators go
– Not the most discreet looking toy
Features: 4 thrusting and rotating patterns and 4 speeds
Material: Hard plastic
Power: Rechargeable
Battery life: Not stated
Dimensions: 5 x 2 internal inches; 10.8 x 3 external inches
Waterproof: Splashproof.
Best fleshlight
Everyone on earth has heard of Fleshlight, and there’s a reason for that. This one is Lovehoney’s bestselling masturbator, and we suspect it might be something to do with the fact it’s filled with TPE that feels soft and realistic against your dong.
The entire sleeve is covered in bumps, which obviously feel insane as you thrust in and out of it, and can be made otherworldly by twisting the base of the toy to unlock suction power, too.
To make sure your new best bedmate stays clean and safe, the whole thing comes with a travel cap, which also transforms it into a discreet object to leave on your bedside table.
+ The people’s princess of masturbators, truly everyone will like this
+ A pretty accessible price point
+ Love that you can adjust the suction by twisting the base
– Maintenance can be a bit tricky as you’ll need to powder the sleeve to keep it fresh
Features: 6 insertable inches
Material: Soft plastic
Power: None
Battery life: N/A
Dimensions: 8 inches
Waterproof: Submersible.
Best for stamina control
Did you know that around 20-30% of men orgasm within five minutes? It’s nothing to be ashamed of it that’s you, and it’s actually becoming more common.
That’s why LELO has created this vibrating masturbator that doubles as a stamina trainer. Not only is the inside loaded with haptic feedback technology, which means it adjusts the vibrations to your speed and movements, but the LELO app also comes with custom kegel exercises so you can improve the strength of your orgasms, too.
If that sounds like more work than it’s worth, don’t worry, you‘ll not only have a blooming good time in the moment but safeguard yourself against longer, stronger orgasms in future, too.
+ Open-ended so it fits a range of sizes
+ Easy to clean
+ The app unlocks six extra vibration modes
+ AI settings is fun to use
– App connectivity can be unstable
Features: App-controlled, AI mode that helps with stamina training, kegel training. Eight vibration modes plus six more in the app
Material: Silicone, ABS plastic
Power: Rechargeable
Battery length: 2 hours
Dimensions: 1.33 x 1.78 insertable inches; 4.3 inches long externally
Waterproof: Yes.
Most versatile masturbator
Good news for sore wrists, this masturbator doesn’t need to move to have a good time. In fact, Hot Octopuss created the first of its kind male vibrator, with this masturbator that oscillates against your frenulum.
It’s great for those with mobility issues, but if you do want to add something more, it can be used as a stroker as it’s open-ended.
Should you experience erectile dysfunction, this could also be the toy for you, as you can use it while completely flaccid, too.
+ Can be used as a stroker or held in place
+ Super inclusive and easy to use
– Charge only lasts one hour
Features: 8 oscillating speeds and 6 vibration speeds
Material: Silicone, ABS
Power: Rechargeable
Battery life: 1 hour
Dimensions: 4.6 x 2.6 x 2.8 inches
Waterproof: Yes.
Best for multiple sensations
You’re a multifaceted guy, and that should be reflected in your toy. This masturbator is loaded with both vibrations and suction technology, for stimulation that will blow you off your feet – literally.
But it doesn’t stop there – if you want to get even closer to the action, the sides can be pressed down to get closer to your member, for as realistic sensations as you could possibly hope for.
Naturally, that means the sleeve is also lined with bumps and ridges so your shaft feels every movement. Woah.
+ So many modes to play with
+ Easy to hold shape
+ Has a travel lock so you can take it on holiday with you
– Power only lasts 45 minutes
Features: 7 vibration patterns, 3 vibration speeds, 3 suction intensities, squeeze sides, and Boost mode
Material: Silicone, hard plastic, TPE sleeve
Power: Rechargeable
Battery life: 45 minutes
Dimensions: 10 insertable inches, 11.4 externally
Waterproof: No.
Best for realistic sensations
Sometimes when you’re using a sex toy, it simply doesn’t cut it. Our advice is to accept it for what it is: it’s a tool, not a replacement, so it’s not always going to feel exactly like the real thing.
If you are craving the sensation of a real mouth but don’t want to go the extra mile, this masturbator from Blowmotion uses warming technology that means it heats up to 40 degrees.
Of course, it’s also loaded with vibrations, which will feel extra sensitive against your shaft thanks to the heat.
+ Sits on the top of your penis so you don’t have to move it if you don’t want to
+ It’s easy to use
+ Works for different size penises
– Not very long, so not great for all-over stimulation
Features: 6 vibration patterns with 3 intensities
Material: Silicone
Power: Rechargeable
Battery life: 1 hour
Dimensions: 3 internal inches
Waterproof: Splashproof.
Best discreet masturbator
We’re not only including this masturbator because of its name – promise! This toy might be soft and squishy like a marshmallow, but it’s also completely unsuspecting thanks to looking just like a coffee cup.
Thanks to the sides being filled with air, once you’ve inserted your schlong into this toy, you get to decide how firm of a grip you want on it.
But that’s not all – the inside is filled with rows and rows of tiny ridges, so your shaft will get a relaxing massage as you lull your way to orgasm.
+ Great for more gentle stimulation, and if you want to edge yourself
+ Looks and feels very approachable
+ Ideal if you like something tactile while you get off
– No vibrations, so there’s less you can do with it
– Can be fiddly to clean
Features: Travel cap, removable sleeve, squishy sides to customise grip
Material: Elastomer, silicone, PC, ABS, urethane, POM
Power: None
Battery length: N/A
Dimensions: 16.5 × 8.7 × 8.5 cm
Waterproof: Yes.
Best for new sensations
Bored of the same old up and down? Fair. This vibrating masturbator is designed to send its vibrations horizontally, thanks to the squeeze technology that means you can pulse the vibrations against your shaft.
Speaking of vibrations, there are three vibration speeds and six patterns to choose from, so you’ll never get bored.
Plus, good news for you lazy cleaners out there, the sleeve is removable so it’s pretty smooth sailing from beginning to end.
+ Beaded canal for extra texture
+ Charge lasts for 2 hours
+ Great to use with a partner
– Can’t be fully submerged in water
Features: 3 vibration speeds and 6 patterns, squeeze sides
Material: Hard plastic, silicone, soft plastic
Power: Rechargeable
Battery length: 2 hours
Dimensions: 3.5 x 0.7 insertable inches; 4.25 inches externally
Waterproof: Splashproof.
Best self-lubricating stroker
If you’re new to the male masturbator game, this small stroker from Lovehoney could be an approachable intro to the world of wanking.
It might be teardrop-shaped, but it’ll only induce happy tears, as the inside is entirely self-lubricating. So you don’t have to buy your own lubricant, all you have to do is add a few drops of water to the inside of the sleeve to activate its slickness.
Beware, though, after five uses the lube will run out so you’ll need to use your own. We’d recommend this one.
+ Affordable option for beginners
+ Super stretchy so it can fit any size
+ Filled with bumps for added texture
– No vibrations
– Lube runs out after a few uses (but you can just buy more!)
Features: Self-lubricating
Material: TPE
Power: None
Battery life: N/A
Dimensions: 3 x 1 insertable inches; 3.5 inch externally
Waterproof: Yes.
Best rotating masturbator
Who says you can’t have a wank that blow you into a different dimension? Arcwave certainly hasn’t, because it’s created this masturbator that spins a full 360 degrees – now there’s something your partner can’t do.
Not only does it come with four modes that allow you to lie back and have hands-free fun, but you can sync the masturbator with the KooSync app to match the sensations up with your favourite erotic content, or to let your partner take the reins from wherever they happen to be in the world.
+ A sensation that most other toys don’t come with
+ Love that it moves a full 360 degrees, for immersive stimulation without an annoying pause
+ So clever that it syncs with the app
– It’s a little noisy
Features: Rotating stimulation in four modes: manual, speed select, autopilot and intense
Material: Hard plastic, silicone
Power: Rechargeable
Battery life: 1 hour
Dimensions: 4.5 internal inches; 5.2 external
Waterproof: Submersible.
What to look for when buying a male masturbator
If you’re still stumped by that list (ahem) we’ve asked Maria to suggest what features to look out for when shopping:
- Texture: “Different toys offer very different sensations, so it’s helpful to think about whether you enjoy gentle stimulation, vibration, or a more intense stroking motion,” Maria suggests. “Do you want something soft, ribbed or even beaded?”
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Features: “If you wanted to take it up a notch, some toys offer advanced features like thrusting elements, suction options and even vibrations or warming functions.
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Maintenance: “Beyond the experience and feel, it’s also important to choose a toy made from body-safe materials to ensure safety and longevity. You also need to consider that some toys will need extra care, cleaning and maintenance after use.”
How do you use a male masturbator?
While we’d like to say you can simply slip your schlong in a hole and call it a day, it’s not always that simple. Here are Maria’s top tips for using a male masturbator:
Lube, lube, and more lube!
“It is one of the simplest ways to make a male masturbator feel more comfortable and pleasurable. Make sure to apply it to both the toy and your penis.”
Take it slow
“Take your time and experiment with different speeds, pressures and movements to help you discover new ways to experience pleasure instead of relying on the same technique every time,” Maria recommends.
Cleanliness is key
“Make sure to maintain your toy after every use,” she adds. “This includes thoroughly cleaning it, drying it, and storing it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Some toys can be pricey, so proper care helps maintain both hygiene and the product’s lifespan.” Amen to that.
FAQs about male masturbators
We get it, buying a sex toy is a serious venture. To make double double sure you’re making the right purchase, we’ve answered your burning questions.
Can you use a male masturbator with a partner?
“Absolutely, although they’re often marketed for solo pleasure, male masturbators can be a great addition to partnered sex,” Maria explains.
“Couples can incorporate them into foreplay, oral sex or mutual masturbation.
How do you clean a male masturbator?
How you clean a male masturbator depends on the model. If it has a removable sleeve, you’ll want to take that out and flip it inside out, before washing it out with soap and water or sex toy cleaner.
If it doesn’t have a removable sleeve, you’ll need to make sure you thoroughly clean the inner and outer portion of the toy with hot water and soap or sex toy cleaner.
You’ll also want to make sure you towel dry your toy and store it away from dust and light, and in a storage pouch if you’re storing it with other toys.
Some masturbators, like Fleshlights, require maintenance with a powder, so make sure you read the instructions to make your toy last as long as possible.
